بنت جده
08-01-2003, 06:07 PM
This is my simple advice to everyone in points. Try and force yourself to do them and you'll see massive and huge changes in your personality. Also, it could be dedicated to those who are usually upset and sad to make their lives better ..
1- Be always optimistic every now and then even if you are sure this problem or that one is getting bigger or has no solution, there would be completely different results or totally the opposite side if you are an " optimistic person " .
2- Delete the word " sadness " from you dictionary and all its synonyms then you'll be happy.
3- Never put yourself down after saying these bad expressions "I am nothing at all" , " I am useless " .. etc.
4- ( Always keep smiling ) even if you are sad ... believe me in this and you'll see.
5- Forget every bad event or accident happened in your life or at least try to do so.
6- Feel free and try to be a fancy-free person or in other words be " Carefree ".
7- Be a fully obedient person to God in the first place then to " Your Parents ". Because, these obedience are the most important steps to happiness.
8- Break the routine in almost everything around you. For example, changing the set of your room .. moving your bed to another area .. the times of sleeping .. kinds of food you are going to eat .. times of reading and watching ... etc.
9- Dig for the underground mines of talents inside you.
10- Watch your words and every single word you are going to say. Because, some words could be fatal and very dangerous and as a result you'll be in trouble.
11- Have a specific time every single day to fly away from this boring daily-life doing these helpful actions "Relaxing, Chilling out completely, Imagining, Dreaming … etc" just to use your mind fully and to satisfy your mood.
12- Help the others always not only when they ask you to do things, but before that you could contribute for the sake of God and the sake of helping people.
13- Can you imagine this? You are very happy after you knew your mistake and happier when one of your closest friends tell you this or that mistake. True and sincere friends only will tell such honest advices. Exactly according to the Sicilian proverb: ( Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty ).
14- Busy yourself , use your time fully cause who knows tomorrow may be you would be completely hectic and you don't even have time to do your essential assignments. Remember what Benjamin Franklin said: (One today is worth two tomorrows).
15- Be friendly to everyone even those who mistreat, misjudge, or misunderstand you.
mangool lol
1- Be always optimistic every now and then even if you are sure this problem or that one is getting bigger or has no solution, there would be completely different results or totally the opposite side if you are an " optimistic person " .
2- Delete the word " sadness " from you dictionary and all its synonyms then you'll be happy.
3- Never put yourself down after saying these bad expressions "I am nothing at all" , " I am useless " .. etc.
4- ( Always keep smiling ) even if you are sad ... believe me in this and you'll see.
5- Forget every bad event or accident happened in your life or at least try to do so.
6- Feel free and try to be a fancy-free person or in other words be " Carefree ".
7- Be a fully obedient person to God in the first place then to " Your Parents ". Because, these obedience are the most important steps to happiness.
8- Break the routine in almost everything around you. For example, changing the set of your room .. moving your bed to another area .. the times of sleeping .. kinds of food you are going to eat .. times of reading and watching ... etc.
9- Dig for the underground mines of talents inside you.
10- Watch your words and every single word you are going to say. Because, some words could be fatal and very dangerous and as a result you'll be in trouble.
11- Have a specific time every single day to fly away from this boring daily-life doing these helpful actions "Relaxing, Chilling out completely, Imagining, Dreaming … etc" just to use your mind fully and to satisfy your mood.
12- Help the others always not only when they ask you to do things, but before that you could contribute for the sake of God and the sake of helping people.
13- Can you imagine this? You are very happy after you knew your mistake and happier when one of your closest friends tell you this or that mistake. True and sincere friends only will tell such honest advices. Exactly according to the Sicilian proverb: ( Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty ).
14- Busy yourself , use your time fully cause who knows tomorrow may be you would be completely hectic and you don't even have time to do your essential assignments. Remember what Benjamin Franklin said: (One today is worth two tomorrows).
15- Be friendly to everyone even those who mistreat, misjudge, or misunderstand you.
mangool lol